In 23 Days!

In 23 days, I’m officially not old or young. I grow a year older so that now I am no longer the bright-eyed fresh graduate who wants to start her career, nor am I the young twenty-something who wants to fall in love. I am not even the thirty-something who wants to make mistakes and…

A Rude Awakening

In the last year I have realized some pretty disturbing facts about the way I interact with others. I realized that I have given people more chances than they deserve and I have given more than I have received in many of my dealings. This fact hit me like a brick when last week I…

The Ex (Fiction)

She walked away from their last conversation believing that she had no other choice. After all, he cheated and there was nothing left to be said. He begged and pleaded for another chance but his attempts to be forgiven were only met with her silence. He texted, he called, and he emailed, but still he…

Shouldn’t We Change ??

If you have been following my blog for some time now , and you did the maths, then you will know that I’m not that young. Also, you will know that I’m single. I am fine with it, because me being single is only the result of not meeting the right person. Yes, it is…

Ten Steps to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy!

I know that many of you saw this title and you probably thought to yourselves that I have some secret embedded in this post designed to make a guy miraculously change from not knowing you exist to missing you like crazy. Well, if this is the reason you are reading this post then I advise…

What For?

Last Saturday, I told a friend of mine that I haven’t been blogging for some time and that I feel that I really should go back to blogging regularly. In response to my complaint she asked “Why should you?” I   then said to her I should blog regularly because it was something I started and…

The Wall of Words (Fiction)

She sat in his car and smiled and asked him how he was. He made a short reply and looked away. The weather was hot, she wanted him to switch on the AC. So, she looked over at him to ask but saw nothing in his face but hatred. She quickly turned her head to…

The Real Me-Part Two (Fiction)

“So, how do we get to know each other? Do you meet men alone, or do you do it with a relative around? Or do we talk on the phone, or do we have pointless conversations online?” Hashem asked.  “So, you agree to my terms?” Dina responded “I don’t even know what your terms are…

Book review- The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

Let me start by saying that I dislike self-help books. If you regularly read my posts you would know that I don’t like any book that promises me a great life simply by smiling and believing that everything will turn out ok or by saying certain words or acting a certain way. Whether we like…

The Trouble With Indifference

People often say that they don’t have an opinion about a certain issue, or that they don’t want to get involved in an argument between people they know. They might also say that they will keep their opinions to themselves. While it is understandable that they make such statements as a means to avoid problems,…

An Issue with Self-Help Books and How-To Articles

Over the past year I found myself unable to get through any self-help book or how-to article, especially those designed to promise me a full-proof plan that will improve my life in one month, one week, or ten steps. Now, on the other hand I do enjoy reading those books and articles that allow me…

Postponed Choices

Did you ever realize that we live in a world where happiness is often postponed? It just seem like, we can only be happy when we achieve the goal we are working on, then the next one, and then the one after that. Postponing our own happiness becomes a pattern early on in life. At…